If you’re here because your partner has revealed his fetish to you, cut him some slack. He’s likely been feeling guilty and wants to be honest with you.įor some people, the fact that they have a sexual association with an object leads to guilt as well as arousal. This repeated cycle can turn what was once more casual arousal at the sight of an object into a legitimate fetish, so you cut yourself some slack too. Instead, focus on what a fetish is good for – amazing sex and steamy fantasies! Don’t think about what’s wrong with a fetish. There are lots of gay guys that like particular fetishes but are afraid that their current or future partners will not approve. They may be correct, but many times this is fear talking and not reality. Also, by not sharing something as personal as your sexual fetishes with your man, you are creating a barrier that he will notice. This will eventually create problems in your relationship. The worst thing you can do is search outside of your relationship for ways to satisfy your fetish.
At least take the time to discuss your fetish with your partner before you decide for him, that he will hate you for it.
